Love... Revised...

It was my semester break and I was on my way back to home. In the train I met two of my college mates who were travelling along with their girlfriends. One of them was my senior so I didn’t know much about him but the other guy, Rohan (name changed) was my classmate so I knew him better.  He was quite tensed since the beginning of the journey. I asked him the reason and he said that his girlfriend is in other bogey. Love, I reflected and let out a sigh of relief.  He asked a person in our compartment to swap their seats but he refused to do so. Even I persuaded that person but all went in vain. Rohan was becoming more desperate with every passing second. At that instance something flickered into my mind, is it really required to sleep in the same compartment????  He could spend time with her whole day then why does he want to be with her in the same compartment at night…?

Is it Love or just some physical attraction? I pondered for a while then went deep into sleep…

Morning…. Never good when, you are in train... I wanted to sleep a little more but the people won’t let me to, there non-stop chit chat forced me to get up from the deepest of my slumbers… I looked outside the window and I found that the train was at Itarsi junction. I stepped out from the train for some fresh air and obviously looking for some stuff to eat... I was enjoying hot bread pakodas when I felt a pat on my shoulder. I turned around and saw it was Rohan.

 “How was the night Dude!!!:)!!!” I asked him with a big grin on my face.

He seemed quite frustrated… and he said “what night man, that ch****a person didn’t switch the seats”… I patted on his back and said “koi nai yaar hota hai”… We entered into the train and took our seats, he said in a low voice “you know something that bloody senior is taking full advantage of his girl, they had spent many nights together and last night also he fucked her”…

“Fucked her??” I reflected. So this was the reason why he was persuading that person to change the seats so that he could fuck her. I mean dude, he says he love her and so does she then what is the deal with this fucking shit all the time??

I was idly listening to his bullshits.  I was feeling uncomfortable now and for a while there was an eerie silence. After a while he broke the silence, “very few of my friend’s know about me and Ammy (his girl friend, name changed)” and kept on telling me the stuffs which I think he should never tell anyone. And he gave me a reason too when I asked him the reason why the hell on earth he was sharing all such things with me, I was still his class-mate not his best buddy. He said that he is telling me all those things just  because he thinks that I am a modern kinda guy, what they call it  “broad minded”… he said that his friend’s are too narrow minded and have cheap kinda thinking perhaps that is the main reason he never told any of his friends about any of this. And probably they don’t even know that he was travelling along with his girl-friend…. He also told me that none of his friends knows that sometime she visits his flat…

Again there was an eerie silence. Then suddenly with a grin on his face he said “I always keep the rubber (condom) with me dude you never know when you need it.” I smiled and said “precaution is better than cure dude...” At that instance only one thought was wobbling into my mind… 

”Is love just for physical purpose??? Is it just to satisfy our needs??? This is what the young generation says gaining experience??? And this is how they categorize people and call them broad minded on the basis on how many times they have fucked someone??? What this young generation and this youngistan is all about??? Fuck a girl and they call you stud, but if a girl does the same thing then she is a slut.

This guy was talking just about sex since I have met him. However I think I could not set him as a standard as he’s a moron, he had set a target to fuck 99 girls without paying them, before getting married. As he says he don’t want to fuck a prostitute but what the bloody difference it’s gonna make??? It is cheaper in a way but if you fuck 99 girls before getting married then in a way or other you used those 99 girls as your prostitute just to satisfy your own need, your own desperation. You don’t want to have paid sex coz it might spoil your reputation, since you are the stud in the eyes of everyone, Casanova types.

And what has happened to girls (I am not talking about those bitches who could go to any extent to sleep with a guy). I never understood why girls are attracted to these jackass-Casanova-type guys. And then they want them to be loyal. How they couldn’t recognize the type of person they are hanging out with??? But then it’s easy to understand same sex rather than breaking your head for the opposite one. Ok, back to the topic, I think even girls are more interested in sex than love. During a long conversation with a friend of mine I found that girls are more desperate for sex compared to boys. She told me this and also notified that thus, girls have more control over their desperation than boys.

I don’t know much about Rohan and Ammy neither I know their purpose of being in that relationship but that one and a half day chat with Rohan cleared one thing that he was in this relationship for just one purpose and that he was achieving his goal of fucking 99 girls before his marriage. And not only Rohan, I have come across many such people who are in a  relationship where the sole purpose of their being in a relationship is to sexually satisfy them. And this is not only about guys, even girls who are considered as the softer sex by the whole society are harshly humiliating the essence of love by providing its name to a mere sexual relationship…

All this discussion drifts to a point, that there’s a thing called love which is being insulted, which is getting lost in all this physical satisfaction and materialism of people. However, I agree that if you love someone truly sooner or later you would like to get intimate with that person but no way, not on the cost of love. Love should be kept alive for the longing of any relationship. To make it last longer and forever. Love once lost could not be brought back from past. Relationship in this generation needs a complete revision. Physical need should be a factor but love should always be given the first priority. And so it should be the backbone of any relationship.